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Postpartum Depression: My Story

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Today's post will not be about the usual homemaking topics but it is a topic that I feel so strongly about. I'd like to share my story about living through postpartum depression.  I'm laying it all out so that maybe someone will recognize themselves or someone they know and she doesn't have to suffer as long as I did.  To find out more you can visit http://www.1800ppdmoms.org/.


How To Host A Neighborhood Open House

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While certain stores are telling us it is Christmas time (I'm looking at you, um, every store) the truth is that it is fall and I am celebrating it by showing you, my lovely readers,  my pictures from a Halloween/Fall open house we hosted for our neighborhood. Open houses are a fantastic way to entertain because the times are fixed and YOU get to fix those times!

 

1. First I created a simple invitation/flyer. This was stuffed into everyone's mailbox in our neighborhood. I made sure to let our invitees know that they were not obligated to come at a specific time during that 2 hour window and they could stay as long as they liked. I also put that it would be held outside so people could dress appropriately. I did this quickly and could have lined it up perfectly blah blah blah but I didn't because life.  You will though.

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2. Everyone knows the most important of every party (after your guests, right?) is the food!  Open houses need food that doesn't need to be piping hot, frozen, or eaten in a certain window of time since everyone will be eating at different times. Slow cookers are a must for anything hot you may decide to serve but I try to think of finger foods (no utensils!) that are both kid and adult friendly and need no preparation.This is not the time for Great Grandma's sardine souffle.

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Placing food in its own one-serving container makes it easy for guests to eat, mingle, and play.

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Offer enough beverages that people have a choice but not a whole bar. I like to have two alcoholic options and two non-alcoholic options. This year we had a slow cooker of hot chocolate that could be "warmed up" with brandy or Irish cream if one was so inclined. This is easy entertaining so offering a whole fancy hot cocoa bar was not happening but a pretty dish of marshmallows is a must!

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We also offered cold beer, water, and apple cider.  Tags on the straws on which guests can write their names ensures no cup mix ups.

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3. Games or an activity is a also a must if you are hosting a party with children. We put out a few lawn games such as ladder ball and bean bag tosses.  A fun party activity is tying donuts to the trees and the kids have to eat them without their hands. And when the donuts are gone they can just climb the tree, apparently.

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or the kids can just eat the donuts like my sweet fox, Ellie.

4. Decorations can set a festive mood but don't need to be extravagant. I used a tablecloths I already had and I topped them with a yard of burlap. I grabbed a few decorations from my mantel and put them on the table too. I found the cute sparkly bat pics at the craft store and my decorations were done!  Jim moved our mums to the tables too but again, we already had those. No fuss stuff.

Pixie photobombed me. Stinker.

5. Lastly, as a host it is your job to mingle and bring people together who may not know each other. Remember to introduce people or to introduce yourself to new faces. You are obligated to make your guests as comfortable as possible! Walk around and ask if anyone needs a refill, invite guests to help themselves to food, play a game or two to get the kids started, and make room on your table for any offerings your guests may bring. 

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My neighbor baked and decorated these cookies. Aren't they fab?


Open house entertaining is a carefree way to bring friends and family together!

Cheers!
Jenny


I Am The Perfect Shape!

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I spent my 20s starving. I always had trouble controlling my weight and from ages 19-30 I managed to keep it in check by the Diet Coke diet which is, essentially, drinking Diet Coke and eating not much of anything. I was thin but happy, despite the fact that people would morph into turkey drumsticks before my eyes a la Bugs Bunny.

And then I had my gorgeous babies and, like many of us, came out of that with more than a few extra pounds. Ok, I'm fat again. All that food I could have eaten in my 20s I more than made up for in my 30s. I was stuck in the house and the chewing sound drowned out the sound of my weeping and the girls' shrieks.

But I wasn't and still am not happy. I hate being this fat. I hate that being in my 40s means I have a better chance of being caught in a zombie apocolypse than losing a pound.  I hate spending money on fat lady clothes because clothing makers assume that if you wear a plus size you are A) 10 feet tall B) 97 years old and C) In loooooove with polyester floral pants.  Before kids I had a kick-ass wardrobe!  I loved getting dressed. Now I loathe it as much as the season finale of The Muskateers (goodbye Aramis, sniff sniff).

I am currently in the struggle to lose weight again. Hello, Hunger my old friend. It has been a while but I remember you well. Hunger is such a mean girl. She's all "OMG did you see what she is wearing?" and "She'll eat this cream puff...just watch!"

Except recently I was given a bit of wisdom by a very wise old five year old. I was helping Ellie take a shower and I was smoothing the conditioner in her hair. She was looking up at me as I did it and with the most sweet smile she said, "I love you.  You know, you are the perfect shape for our mommy."

And all of a sudden, my extra weight didn't seem to matter so much!  I AM the perfect shape for their mommy.  My tummy is soft enough for little heads to lay on and that's pretty important for a mommy.  These special people for whom I live my life think I'm perfect the way I am.  And if I lose weight they will think I'm perfect that way. And if my hair grays more they will continue to believe I am perfect. Except I will dye my grays so that's a moo point (Joey reference, anyone?). But you get my drift.

It was such a good reminder for me not to get too caught up in trying to get to my goal weight. I know it is important to be healthy and that means being active and eating right. But it is also important that I am a living example to my daughters; that perfection is a feeling, not something to be attained by a number on the scale. I can hope they will grow up knowing that perfection can mean being in love with yourself with all of your imperfections.

I admit I am still sitting with that mean girl at lunch for many reasons. But it is nice to know that it makes no difference to the ones that mean the most!



Cheers!
Jenny




First Communion Party

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My sweet Molly made her First Holy Communion recently. It was a beautiful event and we had a small party after with close family and friends. The whole day was perfect and I thought I'd share a few pictures of the party decor. I didn't go nuts with a big dessert table. I'm kind of over all that. But we managed to add some girly touches to make it feel special.



Disney World! My Opinions

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We recently spent 6 days in Disney World with the girls and our beloved friends.  So much has changed since we went last (4 years ago) and I love the new additions!  Oh and I had the wrong lens with me so my pictures are crappy. Oh well!



Burlap Fall Wreath

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Fall is here!!  YES! Hello pumpkin spice everything!  Hello Halloween candy!  Hello mums! Hello new wreath!  

I got crafty a few weeks ago and decided to make a new fall wreath. I used up some burlap I had laying around and then just tucked in some clusters of fall foliage, flowers, and glittery acorns, securing everything with the good ole glue gun!  



Our Family Rules (the real ones)

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Here's a truth of mine. I'm overdone with rules. Family rules, playroom rules, porch rules, beach rules, classroom rules, you name it! You know the ones I'm talking about, right?  All those trendy wooden signs written in all different fonts that let everyone know how awesome your family/playroom/classroom/whatever is?


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My Darling Beasts

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This will surprise you since you know I have it ALL TOGETHER all the time but this weekend my girls looked angelic in their Easter finery but behaved like apes in pink polyester. They were frilly and lacy and rustled when they walked but that was all a pretty facade. They whined, cried, fussed, fought, and basically did everything in their power to get in trouble and no amount of white tights and sparkly new shoes could cover it all up. 


Top 20 Easy and Fun Toddler Activities!

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We've had a great summer and I have been able to keep Ellie busy despite the fact that she's a toddler who can not be pleased by anything other than Team Umizoomi.We have managed to fill our days with cute, easy activities to keep a toddler busy and happy for, like, 10 seconds. But those 10 seconds are magical. 

So here is a list of our favorite top 20 summertime (or anytime) toddler activities!


Ellie's Butterfly Birthday Party

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Last week my sweet Ellie turned 3. She asked for a butterfly birthday party to celebrate so that's what we did!  I will admit that I wasn't up to a big crazy decorated party. I didn't want to spend days making garlands and poufs, icing 47 different types of cakes and desserts, and I was adamant that I wasn't going to be spray painting anything to make the perfect dessert tablescape.

Anyway, here are few pics of our little lady and her butterfly party!
She is spunky, surprising, beautiful, and growing so quickly that I can hardly believe it. 
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Butterfly Birthday

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Ellie turns 3 this weekend and she decided she wanted a butterfly birthday party to celebrate!  We invited our families and good friends to enjoy the (hopefully) sunny weather with us at a birthday barbecue. 

Stage Mother

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We have had a super busy May so far!  Among the school events, my nephew made his First Holy Communion and Molly had her dance recital. I have to admit that Molly dances not just because she enjoys it but because I'm living vicariously through her. As a kid, I begged and pleaded to take lessons even though I secretly knew I would never be unchubby enough to actually step foot outside in a leotard.



How to Make and Freeze Meatballs

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One of my earliest memories is standing next to my mother early on Sunday mornings as she mixed up meatballs and made the pasta sauce for our traditional Sunday pasta dinner. Dinner, mind you, that was eaten at 1:00 PM.  If you ever sat behind us in church, you no doubt smelled the onions and garlic on my mom. She always smelled savory in church.  I don't carry on the Sunday pasta tradition but I do make my own sauce and meatballs just as my mama taught me!  I'd love to pass on our family recipe to you now so today I'm going to show you how to make your own meatballs and how to freeze them so you can take out 1 or 20...however many you need.



Blog Love

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Hi!  I have some blogs that I'd like to share with you!  Each one has great content, lovely pictures, and a nice person behind the name. I hope you'll visit each one and follow them in whatever ways you want! Pin from their blogs, please!


Michelle and Nate are the pair who write this blog. They have all sorts of interesting DIY projects and they have beautiful taste. You have to check out their pretty powder room.  But first, here is a great tutorial they created for making this sewing table. It's so sweet, isn't it?




The flu has come to visit

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Ellie has the flu (or something with flu like symptoms). She is miserable and we have had a tough week. I haven't been on the computer much because she really needs tons of cuddles!  Here are some pictures of how we spent our days. Granted this was in between crying jags and naps (her, not me. Really. )



A Little Glimpse Inside Our Weekend

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We have been getting our Christmas on here. We baked and decorated cookies (chocolate!) and went to Sesame Place for their Christmas events. That was a bit of a nightmare mostly because it was so incredibly crowded that it took some of the fun out. We couldn't get into any of the shows and it was a 30 minute wait (at least) for each ride. Ellie was completely unimpressed and Molly enjoyed the rides she was able to get on.   Here are some pictures of our weekend!  Not all are edited, sorry.


Ellie likes sprinkles, ya think?











We also gave the girls a Christmas present. We give them an ornament every year so they will be able to trim their own trees someday with some heirlooms. We gave Ellie a gold rocking horse because she loves ponies and I chose a white reindeer for Molly. She loves Rudolph and I liked this guy's red nose.




Let's see...what else can I talk about?  Oh yes, Robert Sabuda. Are you familiar with him?  He's a paper artist and creates the most amazing pop up books. I scored a few at a yard sale in the summer still in their plastic.  They make lovely keepsakes for children and my girls enjoy looking at all the details in the pop ups.




There are my musings!

Cheers!
Jenny

Creating Custom Art: Signs by Andrea

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I love love love all the typography art that is so popular now and I especially love the ones that inspire us.  I  adore the idea of having something in our home that describes how we like to live and reminds us of our values as a family.  That's why I was so excited when Andrea from Signs by Andrea contacted me, wondering if I'd like to try out her downloadable custom family rules art service. Would I?  Oh yeah!


This is what  I came up with. I had so much fun creating it using the easy process on the Signs by Andrea website because I could choose my background color, font, font color, and the rules I wanted. Andrea has prewritten rule options I could use or I could write my own. I used both methods and I am so happy with how it turned out.  It was so easy! 

Once the rules are completed you receive it as a file which you can print out or send to a printing service. I sent mine to Shutterfly to get printed in a large size but I couldn't wait and printed it out using my printer so I could hang it up right away.





I already decided that I'm going to use Signs by Andrea again when I go back to teaching in a classroom. So many of these rules are applicable there too!


Check back tomorrow when YOU have the chance to win a Free Custom Family Rules Download!! 

Cheers!
Jenny

Halloween in NJ, Some Cool Stuff in Blogworld

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Tonight was our Halloween night!  We all trick-or-treated and the kids had a blast. Our neighbors came back to our house for donuts afterwards for a bit. Ellie adored trick-or-treating and would not be left out of a single house!  I love watching her become a big kid!




Updates to Molly's Bedroom

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I'm making hurricane lemonade. What?  I mean that since Hurricane Sandy threw us a whole lotta lemons we had to make some lemonade out of it. So thanks to Sandy for giving me the time to get some stuff done around here.   She made us stay in the house a lot and so we got some little home projects going or finished up!  Jim planned and built a firewood rack and cleaned a ton. He is a web based business so when his company lost power he ended up with a week off of work!

I finished a curb alert nightstand for Molly's room and then stenciled a few little doo-dads on her closet doors (she has 4 doors because she has 2 closets) and on the side and top of the nightstand.